Please I need some advice on how to handle my sitch.
As I have posted before things are not so good between my H and ow.
After H picked up his Harley at the dealership he stopped over to see his cousin who he had been close to but dropped when he took up living with ow. I haven't talked to the cousin personally yet (we are good friends) but she told my S23 that H isn't happy where he's at. He told her that ow is very insecure, demanding, and controlling. Cousin doesn't think this is going to last long.
My dilemma is this, should I plant a seed in H's head about a possible R at some point? H is so prideful I don't think he will ever admit he made a mistake by leaving. (I do know it's possible he still believes he didn't make a mistake by leaving us, only one by moving in with her.)
I don't think H is anywhere near done with MLC yet. I do know that pride can be a big hindrance to Rs.
I know I very well could be jumping the gun, but is there anything I could say that wouldn't be considered pursuing that would let him know that I am open to him returning at some point, or should I just let it go and let the chips fall where they may.
