He's Loving the Freedom of the 180 - Now What?

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I've always handled the checkbook, and he never asked questions, not for 20+ years. After the last exposure, he stopped having his check direct deposited into the household account. Now I must ask him for money to run the house and show him all the bills and credit card statements. He wants access to EVERYTHING. It's driving me crazy, especially since this is so damn one-sided. He wants me to account for every penny, yet he can spend every evening working late and I'm not supposed to ask questions?

Testing? Control? Getting ready to abscond with all the cash and leave me high and dry?


This is EXACTLY what happened to me - my STBX did the same thing. I filed on his disgusting a**!!
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