My thing I cant help is that she did this because of my past actions. I drove her away. I cant even look at her now..and when I do she looks different to me now.
Wrong.
Cheating is about a person's character and personal integrity. Now, you may have done things that contributed to problems in your M, but you did not make her cheat!
People with high integrity leave one relationship before getting involved in another.
We will allow you to take the blame for the things you have done (and insist on it), but we will not allow you to take the blame for what she has done.
Thanks TH, It helps reading that.
Oh where the hell is Doc Brown and that Delorean?
Me 31 Wife 34 (Step)D 15 /(Step)S 13 / D 6 Married 3/3/01 Separated 6/4/10 Bomb 6/14/10 Served 6/22/10 EA/PA Discovered 7/5/10 Now Back Together 8/1/10
