BG,

Sorry that you find yourself here but you will get good advice and you will get through this.

Sounds like your H is having a mental breakdown of some type.

How old are you and he?

Does his or your family know about the M problems or the gambling problem?

What is your H's family background like such as his R with his parents?

The suicide site could be a cry for help. I wouldn't take that lightly especially if he has gotten in over his head with his gambling addiction.

Your H wouldn't be the first person to lie to a C about there not being an OP. Believe nothing they say and only half of what they do.

Sandi has given you good advice. Try to follow it the best you can, and take care of you and D.