CP, hold your horses. Get your ducks in a row. I know you're dying to expose right now and take action, but you're in an emotional state at the moment. That means you're going to react.
You've just been hit with a sledgehammer and are shattered right now. You don't want to make any mistakes. You get ONE chance at exposure. So do it right. You keep your head and RESPOND to this. I'm not up to speed on your thread. Take Puppy's advice and go look up his posts.
- Click on his name - Select View Posts
And a list of his posts comes up.
If I remember correctly, FormerlyKnownAsF's thread covers some stuff on exposure. Keep yourself busy reading that.
Will do. there is a lot I have already been reading. My emotion of it happening, is not bothering me. It the now. It all I think about, She is sneaking a call,text, etc. OM is doing the same. The continuing is what is getting me.
I left to go think at the park earlier. W kept texting and calling asking where I was at. Of course I didnt respond. When I got back she already pitched a fit and tore up my new copy of DR. I didnt get past chapter 2 or 3. :argh:
My thing I cant help is that she did this because of my past actions. I drove her away. I cant even look at her now..and when I do she looks different to me now.
Ill look at Form.F thread for guidance.
Me 31 Wife 34 (Step)D 15 /(Step)S 13 / D 6 Married 3/3/01 Separated 6/4/10 Bomb 6/14/10 Served 6/22/10 EA/PA Discovered 7/5/10 Now Back Together 8/1/10
