The only way that I can satisfactorily assume anything at this point is to have her show me the cell phone itimizations online and allow me into her email account. I know what you are saying. It is so easy to wipe out your tracks and open alt email accts but i am pretty good at this whole computer stuff and can usually find anything that is/was there. As far as how will i know for sure? That'll just take time once she convinces me that she would be telling the truth and then stay watchful. I know there are no absolutes in life and she hid this from me for almost a year. It all comes back down to trust.
Me-44 W-41 M-20yrs S13 D18 ILYBINILWY-June 2010 (On our Anniversary)