I think setting up a personal expense account and letting your H handle it himself is an excellent idea. There is no reason on God's green earth why you should have to have those kinds of personal expense receipts to deal with.
I'd sure like to know what your H is getting out of it by having you see them. Can someone really be that oblivious to the pain it would cause?
I'm so glad you're pursuing your own business venture and taking steps to get that off the ground.
Your H will certainly get a reality check when the consequences of what he considers his entitlement hit.
I'm so happy to hear the strength within you coming through. You certainly can't keep a good woman down.