Thanks for that advice. I will probably get a background check on him.
READY FOR A LITTLE DRAMA?: I had the day off, so W decided to leave the kids with me and go to work. (She works in a private lab owned by a fellow church member. Sometimes she works by herself if the owner is not there.) Around lunch time, I got the bright idea to go there and surprise her, and when I arrived, my oldest daughter peeked into the window and saw guess who - that's right, the OM talking with her. (We also saw his truck outside.) We went in and the OM had run off to hide in the bathroom. My oldest daughter said, "Mommy why is the bathroom light on and the door locked?" I didn't say anything. Maybe I should have, I don't know.
When we left, I asked W, "Who's truck is that?" She said, "I don't know." I took the kids to lunch (W already had lunch) and took the oldest daughter back over to her work, but by then, OM was gone and W had been trying to find us. (She drove to the restaurant and went back to work.)
My wife is asking for a divorce and I don't completely understand why.