You're right - I need to give the professional time to do her job. Thanks for talking me down! :-)
It would be easier to have patience if I knew H was committed to FT. He hasn't said one word about it other than asking if I noticed MY counselor went to so-and-so university. (Not OUR - by MY) It may throw a monkey wrench in things with him going out of town this week. Of course, if he is really dedicated he will still figure out a time to go but I'm not sure he is. I guess only time will tell.
I'm not sure how long to give it before there are any real changes - before I feel the need to make a move. I will think on that. Any suggestions? I don't want to give him even a longer time to get more connected to the OW, assuming there is one of some sort!
