Well, it went from bad to worse (which is oddly somewhat better?)
I noticed W had our digital camera charging in her room. I thought it odd. So I looked for the memory card. It was also missing. ANd she was in the bathroom doing the bath for D....with her laptop.
So, this morning, while she was getting ready, I pulled the card from the camera (which she had in her backpack-that she lives out of) and pulled the photos. (the hard part will be sneaking it back into the camera before she notices it's missing.)
So I found pics of the OM and it's the one from work that I initially suspected; not the flower guy. It's the 'supposedly happily married' guy. I saw two pics from this past weekend (him taken by W; and a pic of a tent-their tent I presume) and pics from the weekend before where "we were at the lake with Amanda" (and the OM). The hurtful pics were of OM standing behind D in the lake.
I had heard Calla say his name and I asked W one day why she would be saying that "Amanda's sister Jenn's son is XX"
So now I need his address to see if he is in fact married. Then plan an exposure. W and OM, perhaps.
I'll try to compile more evidence before I do anything but I left Vmail for my atty this morning to help me organize my ducks; and possibly prepare the first shot.
I'm going to be pretty grim this week as I try to concentrate on my job (I'll need it) and pretend to be civil at home when I am there. I'm going to have to avoid getting frustrated if I have to speak with her for any reason as I can't let the cat out of the bag till all the evidence is SOLID and my atty has me all set up.