If his loving actions toward me now (looking at me, asking me questions, getting me things, compliments constantly, etc) are how he acts when he DOESN'T want to be with me, then how am I supposed to feel confident if we ever got back together?
The way he's been is the way he was with me at times in the marriage. And when he would do those things, I would know he loved me and I felt secure.
But now it's just evidence that he 'loves me' but not evidence that he is committed.
I don't see how I could feel secure if we ever reconciled. (Sigh), we can see.
All i know is that I deserve a committed relationship with a good man. That's all I know. And I will have it, WH or not.
me, 30 WH, 29 D born June 2010 M: July 2001 Bomb/S: 1/14/10 Done with it all.
