If you can, look up some of my old posts to others right after they exposed. Maybe someone can help me with who they were (I still haven't had my second cup of coffee!), but I've gone thru DETAILED STEPS with MULTIPLE posters about what to do at this stage (not that most of them ever actually FOLLOWED it, mind you. ).
The main things are:
- segregate/firewall your finances
- seek good legal advice
- refrain from responding to text messages, phone calls, or personal confrontations from her, demanding things from you (like what you are thinking)
- continue to gather intel
- MAKE NO SIGNIFICANT MOVES. If you ARE cornered, say nothing more than "I don't want to discuss this right now. I have a lot of thinking to do."
- DON'T DRINK
- eat, rest, GAL and exercise.
Puppy
Thanks I will. I'll have to re-read DR/DB as I didnt pay to much to the infidelity parts as I thoughtthey didnt include my sitch.
My thing is do I force my way back into the house or stay put and play it cool? I know my L will fight for it. W already put a passcode on the iphone, so I cannot get back into it.The phone is under my name, so It may be dissconnected or transfered into her name. I'll see as I just switched providers, and I will be hit hard on disconnecting. I will not pay for the phone bill though.
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