guess I'm a little confused. Wouldn't this be form of 'cake-eating' in H's warped mind? Having OW and me??
Not if you are really letting go.
You are saying, "Sure, let's be friends. Why not.", but you are getting on with your life and aren't being a good friend at all. More like one of those friends you almost never hear from because they are way too tied up in their own lives ... which are far more interesting than your life
The friendship offer is only as sincere as the intent behind it. Sure, you bear no grudges, why should you? You are moving on. Maybe one year we'll talk when I need something. That's what kind of friends you are.
You have to really mean this though.
Nobody says you have to be nasty. You can be nice and move on. In fact, why would you be nasty?
You have reached a point in your personal growth where your path is diverging. Since you two are not going to grow together, you have to let them grow on their own, and you get to grow on your own.
Nobody knows what the future brings, but now you are letting go. "C'ya round".
Last edited by TimeHeals; 07/05/1004:10 PM.
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