....maybe I am not as ready to let go as I thought....or can get the gest of it, being an enabler/fixer....where do I draw that fine line?
Originally Posted By: gucci loafer
It actually works better the other way around. Tell them you don't want to be married to them and that it would be better that you are friends because you are not IN love with them anymore. It shows more of the "letting go" to do it that way. Like it is now no longer a big deal what he is doing. Water off your back. You tell him you are ok with being friends, and your actions show you are going to be as bad of a friend as he is.
This is what I have been doing...kinda....I think I need to work on the 'bad friend' part!
I guess I'm a little confused. Wouldn't this be form of 'cake-eating' in H's warped mind? Having OW and me??
M55 H55 my D31 H D30 1st met her when she was 25 M 22yrs...2nd for me, 1st for H OW 2005 mother of H daughter, came back to introduce D 1bomb 6/05 2bomb 7/08 3bomb 2/10 moved up north
