Gatsby, you weren't breaking DB rules! Just because you told him you were willing to make it work? ANd I am proud of you for knowing your boundaries and telling him from the get go that you can't 'hang out' if he doesn't want to work it out.

Just follow through on your MWF evening visit plan and see what happens.

(((hugs)))

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004