Just found out she already filed

[ImprovedRomeo]

Thanks guys!!! I so appreciate your comments, even though I don't feel like I have the motivation to write. I write in spurts and then all this ruminating makes me numb and I don't know what to write and what to leave out. But I like reading your guys comments, there are nuggets of wisdom everywhere and some 2x4s which are always welcome.

Right now I'm struggling with the D paperwork I have to provide. Did you guys really provide month-by-month statements of various banks accounts for the last 3-5 years? I'm thinking of saying 'if they need any particular month/bank I'll provide them on as-per-needed basis' - don't think it'll work?

It's a full time job collecting 12 statements for 5 years times 6 or 7 accounts. Not sure how to get out of it.