What does this mean?- the WH's regrets?

[gatsby11]

I want to see a movie at 11, so this needs to be short.

We talked. I said that I want his influence in our baby's life, with his cooking and other things. And I said that I want his influence in my life, too. But not if we're not going to try to make this work. (I cried before I started talking, bTW, to set the mood for ya.) I said that I knew we had a lot of issues but we could make it work. (I know this is not DBing, but I felt that he needed to hear it.)

And I said if he didn't want to do that, then we could no longer 'hang out' like we have been. He started crying.

He said that we should work out a schedule. So it will be M, W, F evenings and when he comes over I'll leave.

He said can he come over earlier and cook for us? He said, didn't I like that? I said Yes I liked that. I do want that. But not if we're not going to be together. If we're not, we should start acting now like we will for the rest of our lives.

He continued crying and said that we should start the schedule and we'll talk later.

So that's where it's at.