I think if I had let go earlier than I did, I would have regretted it.

So I am glad that HE was the one to file (just for me and my sitch-not advocating that everyone wait for the spouse to file), I learned an example of how to fight for my marriage and make changes in myself, and if I run into problems with my next relationship I have learned some useful techniques BEFORE it comes to breaking up/divorce.

But can I say that to truly let go without expectations FEELS FABULOUS! FREE! AMAZING! no joke.

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004