well that is understandable. If giving the opportunity do I tell W the intents of the keylogger?
It seems to me that you don't act when it's time to act, and then you mull things over too much and then try to use talk to get the results YOU want.
At the time she was throwing a fit, if you had GAL, focused on yourself, and had begun to drop the rope, you probably would have said something like, "Sure, you were having an affair, so I wanted to know what I was up against and if this M was worth saving, and you were telling me one thing and doing another, so I was making sure I had the whole story".
Alas, stop trying to fix this. You're just making things nastier at this point.
Really, it's time to stop trying to control one another. Period. If you keep trying to control her, she will try to control you and make you miserable--she said so.
Last edited by TimeHeals; 07/05/1002:51 PM.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-
