Love the name change!!! I have a name as "hopingwaiting" on another forum and wish I could change it but it won't let me!
Sorry, don't know how to make the name change.
As for your D's b-day...glad to hear her dad came through to spend some time with her.
I am sure it would be weird to spend time with your stepkids without your H but it certainly shows how much they love you and want to keep you in their lives!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004