OK, so you exposed. Good for you. OK you fought for your M. Good for you.
Now, however, you are locked in a battle of wills with somebody who not only does not respect you at this time, they are bent on leaving you at whatever cost. It's becoming too nasty to continue, IMO.
The good thing about this flight syndrome is that you can probably lock in a deal where she gets almost nothing in the seperation agreement. That's a thin silver lining on a big, nasty dark cloud.
Right now she is doing nasty, nasty things to you, and you are just taking it. Time to drop the rope and let her deal with her own choices from now on.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-