I think exposure backfired?

[AntoniaB]

And here's a followup question: when he eventually contacts me with a "why aren't you answering my emails/texts/calls", whichever the case may be, do I say this:

"You made your choice. As long as she is in your life, I am not."

Or is there something better? I'd like to give a very succint answer and let that be it.