Thanks everyone,

Well that "feeling" is gone... In fact yesterday seems like a dream. I had to read it here today to make sure it really happened. And you are right about this anniv. If anything at all I may ask W what she would like to do.
YES I found the crack in her wall. Now what I need to do is keep on working on it SLOOOOWly until the wall is gone before she even realizes it.
I know "WE" are not there yet. But I do think this is a big step for wife. My next move is to get her to open up more, Talk to me more about HER feelings. AND I need to keep my mouth shut a little more about mine. These last two years I have expressed my feeling over and over I think she knows them by now.
Hope everyone had a great 4th. I counted this morning and son and I still have all our fingers. (I was missing a leg but then I remembered I had already lost that before last night grin)
Well have to finish packing the jeep we leave in about 2 hours. Next time you hear from me we will have arrived.
Later
Doc


And if I claim to be a wise man, well
It surely means that I don't know