This is a very useful thread. I was 4 months into our planned pregnancy when dropped the bomb (PA/no chance of reconciling). I think it is different when there are kids involved and I would also say it is doubly hard again to "let go" when you are expecting your WAH's child. For example, my baby smiled for the first time this week. Do I share that with WH or would that be going against Letting Go because his A with OW is a dealbreaker? How do you Let Go and effectively co-parent especially in the early days? There are 2 of us in Newcomers who have just given birth to our first babies and 1 who is about to...
Me 36; H 40 baby born in May M:13, T:15 Bomb (OW): Dec 09 began DBing: Feb WH overseas with OW old: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2027369#Post2027369
