Let me tell you that there is NO WAY that I am going back to the old me. all of my priorities in life have changed. my whole approach to people and my relationships is different.
Bradley. keep those changes going. You will be a much better father, partner and doctor because of them, regardless of what happens with your M. Good for you!
Twink's right - opening yourself up and engaging with others WILL make you a "people magnet." They'll be drawn to you. Good for relationships AND business (lots of referrals, lol!) (Have you read "How to Win Friends and Influence People" by Dale Carnegie lately?)
As for Mrs. Bradley saying you can see the boys IF you pay her bills - talk about seeing red! SHE HAS NO RIGHT! "Pay for play?" Revolting!
But she IS giving you plenty of ammo for a custody battle. I'm with Bworl - check into child care arrangement for them where you're at (a nanny, au pair, or relative living with you) and then sick your lawyer lose on gaining custody. At the very least it will get her reconsidering staying where she's at. No kids + limited funds = no reason to live 8 hours away.
