Three months is a very short period of time in the life of a MLCer. Until he completes the "replay" portion of his crisis, he may very well not miss family togetherness. The fog of depression keeps them focused only on themselves and what they need to make themselves feel better.
Sounds like you are staying busy and yes, the focus needs to be placed back on you and your children. There's nothing you can do for your h except to pray for him.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
