this does NOT mean the marriage is miserable. Her conviction about divorce validates the escape... the fact that she is so convinced of divorce without the slightest REASON behind it pretty much confirms she's escaping and miserable and thinks divorce is going to make ehr feel better...
Oh she does have valid reasons for divorce. I wasn't a good partner, and didn't fulfill her needs. She just reached a breaking point, and there's no going back in her mind.
She basically just wants the divorce over with and wants "to get her life started again".
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Your wife hasn't even TRIED retrouvaille or family therapy.
We did marriage counseling for a year, and it helped for a while, but then I fell into old patterns again. And we are now seeing a new FT, but we can only go every other week because of her work.
Last edited by Quicksilver264; 07/05/1011:15 AM.
Me - 32 Her -30 Married - 7 Years Together - 9 Years No Kids 05/21 - Bomb 6/8 - Exposed 7/9 - Re-Exposed 06/11 - She Filed
