If You Forget Me #71

[AliSuddenly]

Hey Maria,
I expect you are having some kind of tough/stressful week? I know I am! Damn planets :-) I think the pressure/waiting will ease up after the eclipse Sunday.

Its sad about your Dad, I'm thinking of you all. As for H.. I agree with others when they say yes he does love you and he shows that. And maybe he feels he doesnt have the 'right' to say it to you still, after what he did and the things you read about ow and him... but I am a little shocked he STILL doesnt say it. After everything that has happened, you do need that verbal reassurance.

You said that you try to talk to him and he sort of gets you off track, that he either doesnt answer or answers in a way that turns it around (sorry not explaining well) and you get distracted.

How about really trying hard to address JUST this aspect. Find a quiet time, away from family/work to talk about this? Tell him how you feel. Tell him, you believe he does love you from his actions, but its depressing and saddens you that he never tells you. Ask him if he loves you. Ask him whether he feels its important to tell your partner that you love them. Tell him you appreciate he has ernomous guilt which possibly blocks him but that that is just an assumption - ask him to explain why he doesnt say I love you. Dont give in. Dont let him meander off the topic. If he is silent, refuse to leave until he answers?? Just a suggestion sweets.

Hugs xxx