Thanks, WhatNow and NewMama. You're right - I AM making progress. And the affair IS winding down.
After the big blowup with OW yesterday, WH stayed home all night and even took the kids to see the fireworks the university shoots off a couple of blocks away. He hates fireworks!
This morning, I was wondering if OW had left town to catch the tail end of her family reunion, and I did a drive by her apt to see if she was there. She WAS!
This is HUGE! It's the first time in 18 months they HAVEN'T spent a Sunday night together! Didn't matter that it was a holiday - they've spent many Sunday holidays together. In fact, they barely spent any of Sat night together - he went in past 10 and was home before midnight.
Still, he's working out again like a madman these days. Three years ago it was because he was getting in shape for OW. These days...I don't know. Nervous energy? Filling time?
Wish I knew better what was going on in their world.
