If you continue to focus on yourself, doing things that make you happy, like spending time with your friends, you will soon realise that you are significant and people do enjoy spending time with you. Your H's actions and decisions are about himself, not you.
Look after yourself and be nice to yourself - remember if we don't love ourselves, we can't expect others to love us.
M 39 H 41 T9 M6 EA found Dec 09 Separated Apr to Jun 10 Currently in house separation