Piano, isn't it soooo rewarding and amazing and worth a million bucks to see those first smiles???!?!? And glad to hear you enjoyed your trip!
About sharing your bub's milestones with WH...I think you should because it will help him to bond with his baby girl. And it is too soon to know his future of involvemetn with her, so might as well give him the best foundation if that makes sense.
Maybe aim for pictures every month. Can you send him pictures through your cell phone, too? (haha-bet OW will have a hard time with that one!!!)
Maybe tell him things like "she smiled for the first time today!" "She reached for a toy today." etc. as they come up.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004