I still get up here to read but have been really busy with my business startup. excuse my lack of caps right now but my shift key is broke. Things have been going good with working on our marriage. My husband seems to be willing to do the work but it is still one day at a time or even one minute at a time. he has been working to live life honestly. for my husband it wasn't just the cheating that was dishonest but a lot of things in life that he tried to "get over" on people or just take the short cut. He is noticing in his life that the easy road is not always the best road. He has been open with any communication with OW which is not going to stop because they have a child together but any communication via text, email, phone has been bought to my attention. our FT told husband that it was HIS responsibility to build trust and I should not be the one to have to ask if OW contacted him or anything. I just want to say that without the help of a GOOD FT, our piecing efforts would go down the drain because we really need someone to guide all the emotions that come out after this whirlwind.
We just had a great weekend visiting husband's family out of town. we are still living apart but now in the same city because our FT recommends that we live apart until I am comfortable in the marriage again. So far so good though and I can't thank God enough for strength that I didn't know i had to walk through such a trying time. It was 6 months from the time I joined this board until my husband turned around and it seemed like 6years. This board has been a lifesaver so I will be paying it forward with updates and my two cents to others going through what I went through. Just wanted to updated and write b4 too much time passed.
Me: 28 H: 32 1st marriage 4 both 1 1/2 year married 2gether for 9 1S: 6months 1stepson: 2yo
