And again this is why i said you have to continue exposure efforts throughout the db process.. your wife is going to be running damage control and counter-db measures to persuade people she is doing the "right thing" by running away and plotting sexual escapes with men who are just gonig to use her and toss her away... (any man who is worth her time long term is NOT going to plan secret sex meetings with her when she's married.. that is a HUGE RED LIGHT that the guy is a creep and is just stalking her for easy pickings)