How do I save my marriage to husband in MLC?

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After three months shouldn't he already be missing me and our family if he is going to at all? Does the affair "fog" keep that from happening?

You're right, Snodderly, I should focus on my kids and me and I do. The kids are in counseling. I am in counseling and I also participate in a support group that meets once a week. The boys and I were working out at the gym regularly until I had to pick up a bunch of OT at work just to make the bills. (We plan to get back on track starting tomorrow- Monday.) I talk with my mom and sister daily. I do try to hang out with friends at least once a week for some fun. Today, the boys and I spent the day at a friend's house with loads of other friends cooking out and shooting off fireworks:-)

I still have my moments of breaking down and crying and wondering "WHY?", but then I quickly give it to God.