All hell just broke loose and the final nail is in the coffin.

W was upstairs and I was down stairs at the kitchen table re-reading WAS speech when there was a knock at the door, I go answer the door W comes downstairs at the same time and grabs my laptop then walks into the bathroom and locks herself in.

I asked W if she can hand me my laptop back and she said "I will be out in a few minutes" knowing I had left the draft email open I knew she was reading it...

W comes out pushed the laptop into my chest and tells me "I'm done with you, all of this, next week it will all be over."

I asked W "Did you read the email?" W said "I read more than the email, I read the eBlaster reports" My stomach dropped, I had forgot all about the keylogger reports that were sent to that email address, seems like the email I composed was the least of my worries. W also went into my drafts folder and seen documentation I was keeping on our sitch.

I instantly felt the need to defend myself, when i tried to speak up W just simply told me "I don't care what you have to say, I am done, this house is getting sold also."

W went on to express her disgust in her discoveries. I was in shock and did not know how to respond or what to say.

I said to W "I was/am keeping a log of our interactions and conversations I have/had with a marriage support group." W wanted to see my laptop again to see the logs. I was logging back onto the account when W snatch my laptop and tried to lock herself in the bathroom again. I took laptop back from W after she attempted to break it in half. W then said "See I told you there is something to hide, you never change"

W then went to bash all my efforts in the past 6 months and tell me how I did not change and I was till the same ol' person. W then started to use profanity toward me. If you knew my W, She has not swore a day (as I can recall) in the past 10 years and here she is now dropping f-bombs on me. I was in shock.

When W was telling me that marriage is over, I would validate and say things like "I agree this marriage is not going to work" ect.. W got so upset with me validating she then threatened to make the process hell for me.

I did not once oppose anything she said to me but rather agreed/validated that the marriage is indeed over. It just added fuel to the fire. I remained calm throughout while W yelled and belittled me throwing 10 years back in my face.

W snatched my house keys and put them in her pocket and told me to leave.

complete unexpected chain of events, I am unsure how to proceed from here. I did leave, I am not next door at my parents.

CG,
W said and I read that senate passed no-fault marriage in NYS. W then tells me that it will go into affect next week. I read nothing of the sorts but did read that it has to go through state assembly first.

W then claims that there is a such thing as joint custody of animals? (our dog)

There is no turning back nor improving our situation. I still had hope for reconciliation but now see that it will be virtually impossible giving tonight's events. I guess now I should know how to protect myself legally.


M: 27, W: 25
Together since: 01/31/00
M: 10/4/09 (8 Months)
ILBNILWY: 01/24/10
EA confirmed: 02/10/10 (Busted).
Road to Reconcile began: 07/10/10
Retrouvaille: 09/10/10