I think you should follow your own mind and heart when it comes to dating etc. But it doesn't get said often enough here that a connection with a new man and being appreciated for the person who you are now can be a balm to the soul, especially if you are very picky and insist on a situation that is emotionally secure. Of course there are risks, and only you can judge if you are prepared for the potential negative outcomes.
(((Hugs)))
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.