Well, he said he is cutting off all contact with the OW, but he still wants a divorce. That all his reasons for divorce are still there. And he won't move out of the house because his lawyer told him not to if he wants to retain joint custody. And it was so confusing because he was being so nice, holding me, talking with me about everything.

I don't know what to do now. Try and live separate lives here in the house and do no contact as much as possible, try and live nicely together in the hopes that he will change his mind about the divorce now that he doesn't have contact with her?