You're right, Allen - absolutely right. It's probably time for me to get a bit tougher with all of this. I haven't known exactly how to do that since I'm uncertain of exactly what I'm dealing with...but I need to step up my efforts to find out! I will wait til after talking with the FT this week to do much different than what I'm doing now, but I think I need to make some more changes in order to get him to actually want to work on our marriage instead of just suffering in it or blaming it!
