Just Confronted - A Litttle Confused

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Well I overheard another phone conversation between her and her mom,

She called her mom crying, upset about us having dinner and other stuff.

She basically said "He's doing all these things and acting this way, and it upsets me. I just want this divorce to be over with so I can move on with my life and find someone to be happy with. I want all this, just not with him"

Oh and her mom TOLD HER I talked about the Retrovaille to her. SHE TOLD MY WIFE.

All in all the conversation was ALOT of NEGATIVE TALK from my wife, saying how she was done with the marriage, I had my chance, how she wants to move on, she's miserable ect. She said she didn't want to do the retro weekend, and didn't see how it would help. She said how so very certain she was she wanted a divorce, and that she "felt nothing" for me.

And they talked about THE OTHER GUY. My wife LIED to her mom about how he is just a "friend" ect. She said that she knew the marriage was over a long time ago, and she is searching for that "connection" with a new person that makes her feel good.

I am VERY worried that her mom now is no longer with me. I have talked to her quite a bit, and my wife may be turning the tide on her. Her mom said she would try all she could to convince her about the retro weekend, but at the end of the conversation, it seemed like her mom was agreeing with my wife. I am NOT SURE yet.

My wife said she would give me an answer tomorrow, but I am pretty sure it will be no. All in all that conversation was ALOT of "IT IS OVER AND I AM DONE" talk. I didn't hear a positive word in there. She even said "Once in a great while I TRY to feel something for him, but there is just NOTHING there..."

This appears to be one of those dark days.