Unfortunately DC, he will remained confused until he is willing to look at HIS problems and FACE them. Our task is to avoid being pulled into the drama/confusion/BS, etc.
I know it is hard. My H did the same thing and continues to say he is confused to this day. Fortunately (or not depending on how you look at it), he is away and I have some time to focus completely on me. You have to focus on you and your daughter. She NEEDS to experience SANITY in a relationship with you. She is 1 right? I am sure these are the most precious moments a parent can build with their children and I know you are doing a GREAT job. You seem to have a lot of love in your heart for your children and your H. It is just unfortunate that our spouses tend to view th situation singlarly.
Continue to be a wonderful and supportive mother of both your D and S. They need you more than ever. Your H will eventually see the errors of his ways and begin to think about what he stands to lose....
Keep your chin up and take care of YOU. You are doing great!
Me 41/H 49 M 12yrs No Kids Bomb 1/10/2010 H Deployed The three great essentials to achieve anything worth while are, first, hard work; second, stick-to-itiveness; third, common sense. T. Edison
