Allen, I'm trying. I really am and I'm glad to have you point out that some of it may be working.
I don't have the ability to change my phone number. There's too much connected to it at this point yet, but I will as soon as I can...might be a few weeks though. I have some very sick members of the family at this point and the atty and the bankruptcy atty...all of them have my number. I am the contact. So I will have to deal with that and just suck it up I guess.
I'm glad that his family and others are supporting me too. It is nice to have that happen.
We are not hiding the infidelity from anyone, actually he isn't either, that's what I mean when I say he posted on FB about her and him. He is out in the open with it. Whatever anyone comments, well they do, I can't stop them and I would not try. I'm going to let him hang himself there because we have over 80 mutual friends that will see that, I'm sure they will make some kind of comment about me being gone when they had seen me online. It will be interesting. I'm just not asking them to comment. I will let them make that choice there.
Other than FB I have not held back from anyone that he is dating so and so and that we are still married and have not filed for D at this point. Actually, I go out of my way to tell people that. LOL. It actually makes me feel better when I do that and they get this look on their faces like OMG he's doing what??
