In the rearview mirror - My update

[xin]

My future is in God's hands and he knows the plans he has for me. I know it is something great.

God is good. The serprent may have bitten me but I am not dead. No, I am not dead at all.

Amen!

I could never wrap my head around how you could have been married to someone, take the most sacred of vows and years later the person is out of your life. Perhaps you bump into them at the supermarket and say to someone "We used to be married". I never wanted that violent severing of what was such a fundamental joining of two people in God's most precious union. Couldn't comprehend it.

The problem is we married someone who either lied at the altar or has no sense of loyalty or principles. The fact is they are not worth our love or time. We made a mistake and now we have to accept it, ask for God's guidance so we don't make the same mistake again.