Been busy GALing! I'm trying not to spend as much time on here but still check in on others' threads!

Gabbysmom- don't worry, I will be careful and R is the furthest thing from my mind while I am getting a D so I don't care to explain what I would do. But I would be smart.

Am about to go to a BBQ at a friend's house...I saw her in December and S was just 5 months!

Hopefully I can stop in at a bookstore and get the Sandcastles book that FM recommends....along with a coffee! Long nights these days.

FM- sorry I thought the book you were referring to was different than this one because you said you were reading a book about coparenting. So I figured it was a different book.

Something amusing was today, stbxh texted to see if he could switch a night with me. BUt I have tickets to a concert so I couldn't...so I texted him that and added "I have plans every Saturday night in July." He just replied "ok!" I ALMOST texted a suggestion that his sister could watch him but stopped because it is his night, his problem.


me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004