Your wife has it in her head that once she divorces that her life will be a lot easier, but it won't be... and deep down she likley knows this but has no hope in her that her marriage will ever improve...
She's miserable and blames the marriage for that, and has chosen to act in a way to escape the marriage, desperately hoping that divorce and other men will make her life better... and she's CLINGING to that hope like a life-line.. and excited about that life-line... she has no idea its got a tiger on the other end of it...
