I agree with Kat. STBXW and I always avoided being direct and asking for what we wanted and now here we are.

On her phonoe calls when she needs help and as yammering on and on I no longer volunteer to help. This last call, same pattern so I finally said, "What are you asking for?"

You are so direct on the site. It might be the thing to get you past this mountain.

Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11
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