I have read everything that everyone has posted to me I really have.
I have NOT asked them NOT to talk to him about it. I have made sure that they all know what is going on and are fully aware of what is happening. They HAVE told him that she is not welcome in their homes or around them and that they do NOT approve of this. What I was saying is that they will not do this on FB as a general agreement in that they do not wish to embarrass me further or themselves when he blasts back at them. That's all, so the comments will only be from her friends in that case.
I did not ask them not to do this, they just have been doing things that way. He has only posted things on there twice about OW and they have been pretty much ignored, but he gets calls and texts about them consistengly from what he complains to me in private.
