Your wife is deluded if she thinks children will not be damaged by an affair or a divorce... ALL cheaters insist the children will be "okay" or "fine".. its BS...
Youc an do your own research and tell your wife you have done the appropriate research on harm done to children by infildeity and divorce and that she' is MISinformed...
Tell her you ARE informed and you aren't going to debate the topic on someone who is ignorant of the details... tell her until she's done the research she's harming children and you won't accept any backtalk from an ignorant informant such as your wife
Don't talk about morality, that's NOT going to make her budge...
And her sayign "you've never had an affair you don't understand" is BS... Tell her you have done the research and family therapists have been researching and publishing information on the damage infidelity AND divorce does to people and children for YEARS.. again she's ignorant.. tell her she's uninformed on teh subject... HER opinion is ONE opinion with ZERO HINDSIGHT since she's not divorced yet... tell her YOU ahve done research on families TWENTY YEARS AFTER the infidelity and divorce and your WIFE is the one who does not UNDERSTAND... !!!
BOOM!
Dude, you need to challenge her BS... She's got ZERO hindsight on this... she has no advanced perspective and you CAN do research on this subject...
Less than 1% of affair couples have successful relationships LONG TERM.. they FAIL more than 99% of the time...
Do NOT tell this to your wife, but YOU need to KNOW that YOU have researched this with HINDSIGHT and she HASN'T.. got it?
Don't believe this BS story about HER being the informed one and YOU are the one who is uneducated...
SHE is the ignorant fool.. NEVER let her tell you that SHE knows what YOU DON'T.. that's BS
