Completely Blindsided

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Hi Kara, thanks for the support! I hope you DO feel fantastic, and if not, it's back to the shops for you!

MOON! I'm so glad the surgery went well! That's fantastic news. It's also great that the doctor is... slightly optimistic, but still, saying good things is better than saying bad, right? Means you've got nothing to worry about.

What I've seen of the northern beaches they've been too expensive for me as well. I LOVE the area (one day I'll own a mansion in Avalon, just you wait and see!), but I think I need to be more realistic and move slowly.

I'm not too keen to share... I've lived in a few share houses, some that are fantastic, and some that are a 4 walled hell. I'm not really up for the risk. If I can set myself up working and dancing, then the lack of housemates won't really matter TOO much.

I found a swing class down in the gong that if you pay and go to the Monday night, you can attend the Wednesday and Thursday for free! Fantastic if I find myself a little tight on cash when I first move!

I think what you're saying about your sitch is true in A LOT of people's sitch's. It's one thing to say "I'm gone, done, out the door", but it's another thing entirely to actually deal with any kind of paperwork. The finality of it all is hard to face, as is the shame and any other contributing factors (LIKE religious ones).

I keep telling myself that she hasn't filed... but then I also tell myself that she's not contacted, and probably has to wait a period of time for separation before she can... I haven't looked too deep into the legalities of it.

Gotta live like they have filed. Gotta get up and move on. If they can catch up, fine. If not, fine.

Yeah?