My Wife is Having an Affair with Co-Worker

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Allen,

She was going to go to her friends, not the OM's.

We are all staying home and having a nice 4th of July with the kids together. D wanted it this way, and she is spending her money on the family dinner. Kids want us to be together as a family.

There was a discussion we had last night, but I do not have time to give the details yet. I will do that tomorrow.

Wife and I discussed what a Divorce will do to the kids among other things. She said she made a choice to leave the M and have an A. She said you do not understand an A until you have one. I told I never will because I will not have an affair. She said I am too moralistic, and I told her yes I am. I told her I am glad that I am.

I did say that she made a choice for all of us. The were never give a choice. She blinked a lot during the conversation. I do not remember the meaning. She said she will make sure the kids are okay,and I said she could make sure the kids are okay by working on the marriage.

There was alot more going back and forth. I do not remember all of the conversation. I did tell her that she is not the OMs first A or his last.

I asked why he did not D his W, and she said that he had a house and kids. I said he was a coward.

That is it for now.

Thanks for the help.