Just Confronted - A Litttle Confused

[Quicksilver264]

Well I talked to her just a little today, and suggested we do Retrouvaille in August. Her mom is 110% on board with the idea of going there.

However, her mom sees very, very little hope in talking to her, because every time they talk my wife is dead set on divorce. She says she's never seen my wife soooo determined before.

My wife said "I'll think about it", which means she wants to talk to her mom about it first. Which her mom said she will push for her to go very hard. However, my wife also said "We're NOT getting back together!" I didn't push the issue, and I said that it's not about getting back together. It's about healing and two people rediscovering.

I really, really hope that she accepts me paying for Retrouvaille, as it is about a month away. So I'd have 1 more month to DB, and then an intense weekend where there is usually enormous success.

Oddly on another note, today after the gym she got a shower, and then put on a very sexy outfit, but she's NOT going anywhere today. I can't figure this out. She just put on this outfit to sit around the house, knowing I'd be home all day. I kind of thought for a moment that she might be trying to get me to notice her, but then she goes and says "We're NOT getting back together!" and "I thought you'd accepted the fact there's no changing my mind".

We have been VERY civilly interacting the past 3 days, but when she talks to her mom she is talking to her about looking for condos, moving out ect. For the first time, I am getting mixed signals from her. She is nice and not angry.

I am kind of thinking that since the Facebook guy messaged her back that she is riding a high. But it was a 1 line text, so I wonder what is going on.